I spent four years in Korea. My boss started making sexual advances towards me. In the beginning, I refused him, later I did not. We did not have sex, but did kiss etc. This lasted 2 weeks until his wife found out.
On his side, he completely changed the story, and he blames everything on me. He said that we never kissed etc. He also made up lies that I was a horrible employee to protect himself. This is also not true. He denies any sexual relations at all.
On my side, I would simply say that I left work because of sexual harassment. The end. I wouldnt disclose any sexual relaitonship either. However, I fear that investigators will contact my previous boss and his wife. I don’t know if I should just withdraw my application? Could I ask them not to contact my boss? I am also beyond embarassed that there would be a record of this. Your expertise is kindly appreciated.
Lastly, i was planning to join a womens organization for sexual harassment and be a speaker there to show that I am doing something. would this help?